Teen Mom star made it crystal clear that ex Chris Lopez and father of their soon to be the second son together. He will not be welcome at her baby No 4’s birth.
The mother of almost four boys reality tv star decided this as a mother and defended it down to the ground during a live Instagram Q&A session with her fans on Wednesday, July 15. Kailyn laid out her reasoning on the table when Chris’s fans were trying to persuade her to have a change of heart.
“No,” Kail, 28, bluntly wrote when one fan asked if Chris would be at the birth. In a separate post, she defensively responded with;
“I’m not going to allow my followers to tell me what I should or shouldn’t do based on what you see on IG live or even what I say on the show. My mental health and CONSISTENCY in my sons’ lives are more important than he said/she said. As their mother, I know in my heart I’m doing what I believe to be best. I’m sorry if everyone else disagrees.”
She continued on in additional posts;
“Why would I make the call to someone who has not been helpful, consistent, empathetic, or compassionate for the entire nine months? [He] says he doesn’t care but thinks he should be included in the birth? Make it make sense. … His words and actions are very different.” She also clarified that her decision wasn’t only based on what he’s said about the pregnancy she simply just doesn’t want him there. Kailyn also said they she likes to have fewer people in the delivery room, she shared via social media;
"I have had a birth where friends and family were present and I’ve had births where it was just the father and me," she said. "I like silence during contractions and I don’t love seeing people immediately after birth.
At this point, it seems Kailyn is done with 26-year-old Chris, for good. The former couple has had their peaks and valleys, but the heavily pregnant mom of three has been open about finally accepting the disappointing situation. It sounds like the MTV mom of boys knows exactly where she stands now and will refuse to let anybody try to persuade her into changing her mind. Dealing with cheating allegations in March would draw the line for Kailyn. A teen mom theme post shared some scandalous information saying;
"CHRIS BACK WIT ONE OF HIS OLD HOES FROM [high school]," the amateur reported;
"I SAW THEM OUT AND TRUST AND TRUST ME I KNOW WAT IM TALKIN BOUT," she added
She admitted there was a big lesson to be learned and to find harmony in how she felt and what she knew.
“I accept my stupidity [with him],” she wrote. “But as we all know, someone who doesn’t want to commit doesn’t commit, LOL. I had to separate the words with the actions. It took me a while.”
She explained that the decision for her and her children’s mental wellbeing and to give her kids consistency and stability in their lives that they deserve, having the uncommitted father there would jeopardize these two things and cause confusion to the children.
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